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Tuesday, 21 October 2014

How to relate well with others

Relating with other beings in the human race a times becomes hard which makes most people to brush shoulders with each other....here are a few concepts about relating well with others which we should emulate for peaceful co-existence

    •Some of the most challenging skills to learn are how to get along with others.

    •To get along with others, respect their individuality and strengths, as well as understand their weaknesses and needs.

    •To be able to form friendships, alliances, temporary teams, study groups, and negotiate the world of cliques and social hierarchies.

    •To be able to listen to, understand, respect, and follow authorities as well as undertake leadership roles and use power wisely.

    •To be a thoughtful and informed citizen who votes, pays taxes, obeys the laws, participates in helping the community thrive and serves to protect and defend the rights and life of others.

    •To be a considerate, compassionate and responsible home owner, neighbor and community member.

     •To be a kind, loving and supportive family member.

     •To find and connect with another person and commit your    heart, head and resources to nurture and champion their   dreams -- and have them do the same to you.
To create great friendships, nurture them and maintain lifelong friendships with kindred spirits and true friends

To build a strong, supportive family of your own that respects each member, honors their differences and embraces them for who they are

To be welcomed into a culture (your own or another) as a valuable member worthy of respect and caring

To treat others as equals, encourage them and champion their dreams

To help others when all they need is a helping hand

To act as a good role model and find ones of your own to inspire and guide you throughout your life

 

Decision Making


STAGES IN DECISION MAKING


1.Stage One:  Listing all possible solutions/options.
 
2.Stage Two:  Setting a time scale and deciding who is responsible for the decision.
 
3.Stage Three:  Information gathering.
 
4.Stage Four:  Weighing up the risks involved.
 
5.Stage Five:  Deciding on values, or in other words what is important.
 
6.Stage Six:  Weighing up the pros and cons of each course of action.
 
7.Stage Seven:  Making the decision.
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Friday, 10 October 2014

Rules to Lead The Field




#1. To lead is to serve.

#2. At the heart of mastery lives consistency.

#3. Take care of the relationship and the money will take care of itself.

#4. The seduction of safety is always more dangerous than the illusion of uncertainty.

#5. To double your income triple your investment in your professional education and your personal development.

#6. The swiftest way to grow your company is to grow your people.

#7. If you're not leaving a trail of leaders behind you you're not leading--you're following.

#8. An addiction to distraction is the end of creative production.

#9. The caliber of your practice determines the quality of your performance.

#10. Leaders Without Titles are less about ego and more about getting things done.

#11. Don't worry about the economy when you can be so genius at what you do that you create your very own personal economy.

#12. Lead where you are planted. Start where you stand. And remember that much of winning is just beginning.

#13. The true measure of our leadership is how we perform in volatile conditions versus in times of ease.

#14. To lead is to be yourself in a world of clones. 
#15. Aim for iconic. Why be in it if you're not dreaming of being in the history books? But be kind, decent and ethical along the way.

#16. The humblest is the greatest.

#17. Energy is more valuable than intelligence. Health is more brilliant than gold.

#18. The thing you most fear carries your greatest growth.

#19. All change is hard at first, messy in the middle and gorgeous at the end.

#20. Criticism is the price brave people pay to arrive at iconic.
 

Wednesday, 24 September 2014

BACK TO THE ROAD by Nauffy Maurice

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TKK

Do you know anything about this hilarious primary school back in the days famously known as TKK?
I one day asked my dad by then what TKK  really meant, he smiled at me and told me it simply means 'Toa Kitu Kidogo' directly translated to 'remove something small' little did i know that he was preparing my mind for corrupt future ahead of me.
The world we are living in currently has nothing free, you must give something to get another or you have to give a favor to get another one in return.....this has really destroyed peaceful co-existence that God bestowed upon us when He said "Do good to one another, goodness in my store is waiting you"


to be continued.....

Monday, 14 April 2014

WOMAN'S MOST DESIRES

HOW TO MAKE YOUR WOMAN
HAPPY
1. Dont Force Her To Have Sex
When she is Not In The Mood
2. Buy Her present When Going
to visit Her
3. When She Is Need Of Money
Give Her Without Hesitation. (If
You do have it)
4. When She text you Reply Her
Fast Dont Make Her wait For
More
Than 2 mins For Your Reply.
5. Hold her hands in public. Be
proud of her!
6. Hug her ! Hugs are stronger
than kisses.
7. Kiss her more, of course.
8. Don’t mention your ex-
girlfriends. She hates it.
9. Massage her. and giv her a
lick.. n give her the bestest sex
ever.. n don stop until she is
satisfied too.. She’ll feel sooo
inlove with a real Freak
10. Tell her you love her. Simple
3
words “I love you” isn’t so
hard to say, right?

Monday, 3 March 2014

Ladies Decisions

LADIES, Before you date a MARRIED MAN
you should know this:

1. The only thing he wants from you is sex,
After Cumming he will be gone. He will
only sweet talk you again when he needs
some sex.

2. He can spend a day with you touring
beautiful places but at the end of the day
he will go back to his wife and kids who
will be missing him.

3. He is never going to leave his kids and
wife because of you. He will only be
fooling you all the time with words like “I
will marry you, I will build for you a house,
I will buy for you land, I will take you to
the driving school, I will buy for you a posh
car” and many more different lies.

4. Keep it in your minds that you’re not
the only one he sleeps with apart from his
wife. If he can cheat on his wife with you
then can’t he cheat on you with some
other lady? Seriously he does. He spends
his time and money on other babes just
like the way he does with you.

5. He really loves his wife that is why he
married her, he can’t divorce her and he
can’t marry you. You are just his side dish
to take off his stress. So his loving you is
for fun and temporary.

6. He will dump you after using you for
some other fresh babe; he won’t fulfill
what he promised you. Those will be lies
that he told you just to soften your heart
and to get what he wanted.

7. Getting pregnant won’t fully trap him;
He has his real kids and wife at home that
he can show to the friends and relatives.
You and your kids will be hidden.

8. His property and money are his, children
and his wife. It’s very hard to get a share
on his property.

9. You will never be part of his future, so
stop wasting your time and energy. Cease
serving your body to him because he gives
you some money, because he promised
you something…

A real lady works hard and gets her own
money, pays her bills and a man with a lot
of dime should just be a BONUS. Be wise
dear Ladies. Get out of that sexual
network. Stop wasting your time with
married men. Love guys of your age who
have true love for you.

Thursday, 27 February 2014

48 LAWS OF POWER

THE 48 LAWS OF POWER
1. Never Outshine the Master
2. Never put too Much Trust in Friends, Learn how to use Enemies
3. Conceal your intentions
4. Always say less than Necessary
5. So much depends on Reputation-Guard it with your life
6. Court Attention at all cost
7. Get others to do the work for you, but Always Take the Credit
8. Make other people come to you-use Bait if necessary
9. Win through your Actions, Never through Argument
10. Infection :Avoid the unhappy and Unlucky
11. Learn to keep people dependant on you
12. Use selective honesty and generosity to Disarm your victim
13. When asking for Help ,Appeal to people’s self Interest, Never to their mercy or Gratitude
14. Pose as a friend, work as a spy
15. Crush your enemy totally
16. Use Absence to increase Respect and Honor
17. Keep others in suspend terror: Cultivate an Air of Unpredictability
18. Do not build fortresses to protect yourself-Isolation is Dangerous
19. Know who you’re Dealing with-Do not offend the wrong person
20. Do not commit to Anyone
21. Play a Sucker to catch a Sucker-seem Dumber than your Mark
22. Use the surrender Tactic: Transform Weakness into power
23. Concentrate your forces
24. Play the perfect courtier
25. Re-create Yourself
26. Keep your hands clean
27. Play on people’s need to believe to create a Cult like following
28. Enter action with boldness
29. Plan all the way to the end
30. Make your accomplishments seem Effortless
31. Control Options: Get others to play with the cards you deal
32. Play to people’s fantasies
33. Discover each man’s Thumbscrew
34. Be royal in your own Fashion: Act like a king to be treated like one
35. Master the art of timing
36. Disdain things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best Revenge
37. Create compelling spectacles
38. Think as you like but Believe like others
39. Stir up waters to catch fish
40. Despise the free lunch
41. Avoid stepping into a great man’s shoes
42. Strike the shepherd and sheep will scatter
43. Work on the Hearts and minds of others
44. Disarm and infuriate with the mirror effect
45. Preach the need for change, but Never reform too much at once
46. Never appear too perfect
47. Do not go past the mark you aimed for, In Victory, learn when to stop
48. Assume formlessness.